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How to Prepare for Your Engagement Session: A Stress-Free Guide

Writer: Courtney HirzCourtney Hirz

Updated: Mar 10

After lots of experience in photographing engaged couples here are the best tips for "How to Prepare for Your Engagement Session" that I have found!

Your engagement session is an exciting opportunity to capture your love story before the big day. Whether you're feeling camera-shy or completely at ease, a little preparation can make a big difference in creating stunning, natural photos. Here’s how to get ready for your session with confidence and ease!



1. Choose the Right Location

Your engagement photos should reflect your personalities and relationship. Consider locations that are meaningful to you both, such as:

  • A scenic park, forest, or mountain backdrop

  • Your favorite coffee shop or city streets

  • The place where you first met or got engaged

  • A cozy at-home session for a more intimate feel


2. Plan Your Outfits

Your clothing choices can elevate your photos and set the overall tone. Keep these tips in mind:

  • Coordinate, Don’t Match: Stick to complementary colors and avoid overly busy patterns.

  • Dress for the Location: Choose outfits that fit the environment—formal wear for cityscapes, casual looks for a beach or nature session.

  • Comfort is Key: Wear clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable.

  • Consider the Season: Light and airy outfits work well for summer, while cozy layers are great for fall and winter.

  • Bring a Second Outfit: Having a casual and a dressy option adds variety to your session.


3. Get Hair & Makeup Ready

Many couples opt for professional hair and makeup for a polished look, but even if you’re doing it yourself:

  • Stick to natural and timeless styles.

  • Avoid heavy foundation with SPF, which can create flashback.

  • For grooms, a fresh shave or groomed beard helps create a clean look.


4. Plan for the Best Light

Golden hour—shortly after sunrise or before sunset—provides soft, flattering light for your photos. If possible, schedule your session around this time for the most beautiful results.


5. Bring Meaningful Props

Props can add a personal touch to your engagement photos. Consider bringing:

  • A bouquet or fresh flowers

  • A blanket for cozy sitting shots

  • A bottle of champagne for a fun pop-the-bubbly moment

  • Items related to your love story (books, a guitar, etc.)


6. Relax and Have Fun

The best engagement photos happen when you’re having fun and being yourselves. Keep these in mind:

  • Focus on each other, not the camera.

  • Be open to movement— the more the better! Walk, twirl, and laugh naturally.

  • Trust your photographer to guide you into flattering poses.


7. Final Details to Consider

  • Hydrate and get plenty of rest the night before.

  • Get your ring cleaned for those close-up shots.

  • Double-check the weather and bring backups like an umbrella or jacket if needed.

  • Arrive a little early to avoid stress and enjoy the experience fully.


Final Thoughts

Your engagement session is a celebration of your love—make the most of it! With the right planning and mindset, you’ll walk away with beautiful images that capture the joy and excitement of this special time in your lives.


A beautiful golden hour engagement session in downtown Lexington Kentucky. A couple walking towards each other on the grassy field of the Lexington Arboretum on a spring evening.

 
 
 

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